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mylittleredgirl) wrote2004-12-17 12:37 am
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so, today.
Selfishness and whininess warnings apply to this.
My great-aunt is getting moved to a nursing home under great drama and kafuffle, so my mother had to go to Toronto this morning. There's a very good chance she won't be back until after Christmas. My dad is going to spend the week of Christmas staying at Kripalu.
My family Christmas has been cancelled, and I will be all by myself at home the week of Christmas.
So... I'm disappointed. I made a very bit point of not only not making a scene but being very happy and accomodating and encouraging of all this, because the last thing my mother needs is to feel pulled in yet another direction and I'm too old to ruin my dad's plans just because I want attention. But Christmas Eve is my favourite family night of the year -- we have all these lights and candles, and go to church together sometimes, and bake cookies and watch the Muppet Christmas Carol and huddle around the piano singing christmas carols like we live on a greeting card. I also hate being home alone at night on *regular* days.
So I'm disappointed. I haven't yet figured out how to make the best of this. I realize it's not that big of a deal -- and while I really really hate being told "buck up! it could be worse!", you should feel free to think that in your head. It's just... it's Christmas! It's only once a year, and I was looking forward to it, so it's a drag. I'm using the "this is my journal and I am WHINING in it" perogative.
But there is always gleee.
5 good things about today:
1. Watched good DS9 episodes with Gira ("Accession" and "Shattered Mirror", for
nenya_kanadka who will wonder).
2. Ran into Bina over at Kripalu, and she told me that she likes DS9 better than Voyager now. I feel evil and victorious. We also made tentative plans to watch Voyager eps that I've missed during Christmas week.
3. Got email from Anjani with request to hang out -- yay! I will get gossip on her new job plans.
4. Was in one room with
mystic_isles000,
rpgmaniac666 and
alosersdream, and the universe did not implode from our Kripalu-Kid-iness.
5. Evening with Dad at Country Buffet and Barnes & Noble.
3 things I did well:
1. Agreed to work at 7 a.m. on Christmas Eve as favor to Sara, and made plans to get trained for that tomorrow.
2. Did some Christmas shopping.
3. Worked a bit on a fic that had been WiP-y for a while... I *can* pick up things I've put down before!
-- Little Red, who is also still happy about her cute little tree, and thinks I should try and get a star for it.
My great-aunt is getting moved to a nursing home under great drama and kafuffle, so my mother had to go to Toronto this morning. There's a very good chance she won't be back until after Christmas. My dad is going to spend the week of Christmas staying at Kripalu.
My family Christmas has been cancelled, and I will be all by myself at home the week of Christmas.
So... I'm disappointed. I made a very bit point of not only not making a scene but being very happy and accomodating and encouraging of all this, because the last thing my mother needs is to feel pulled in yet another direction and I'm too old to ruin my dad's plans just because I want attention. But Christmas Eve is my favourite family night of the year -- we have all these lights and candles, and go to church together sometimes, and bake cookies and watch the Muppet Christmas Carol and huddle around the piano singing christmas carols like we live on a greeting card. I also hate being home alone at night on *regular* days.
So I'm disappointed. I haven't yet figured out how to make the best of this. I realize it's not that big of a deal -- and while I really really hate being told "buck up! it could be worse!", you should feel free to think that in your head. It's just... it's Christmas! It's only once a year, and I was looking forward to it, so it's a drag. I'm using the "this is my journal and I am WHINING in it" perogative.
But there is always gleee.
5 good things about today:
1. Watched good DS9 episodes with Gira ("Accession" and "Shattered Mirror", for
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2. Ran into Bina over at Kripalu, and she told me that she likes DS9 better than Voyager now. I feel evil and victorious. We also made tentative plans to watch Voyager eps that I've missed during Christmas week.
3. Got email from Anjani with request to hang out -- yay! I will get gossip on her new job plans.
4. Was in one room with
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5. Evening with Dad at Country Buffet and Barnes & Noble.
3 things I did well:
1. Agreed to work at 7 a.m. on Christmas Eve as favor to Sara, and made plans to get trained for that tomorrow.
2. Did some Christmas shopping.
3. Worked a bit on a fic that had been WiP-y for a while... I *can* pick up things I've put down before!
-- Little Red, who is also still happy about her cute little tree, and thinks I should try and get a star for it.
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Unfortunately, I had already agreed to work on the morning of Christmas Eve before I knew about my family's change of plans and can't now get out of the shift. I think I'll arrange to just postpone the family Christmas rather than cancel it all together, but I feel much much better about life after getting offers of adoption from my friends.
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Oh no! My Lyta icon got lost in the reshuffling some how. Er... have Talia?
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But I'll be thinking of you over here in Wales this Christmas, and wishing you much glee.
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Thanks!!
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That such a sweet offer! Thank you!! I think I'm managing to get myself adopted somewhere for Christmas Eve that's closer to home... but I feel all warm and fuzzy and kappa-foth-loved now :)
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I've had to work on Christmas Day, though, so I know how that can be. The jobs I've had over the years have covered all 365 of the calendar, so I learned to try to make the time special, whenever you can grab it. It's not quite the same, but it can be a useful thing to have.
Plus, next year will be even more special. Promise.
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Thanks so much for the advice and encouragement :)
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I know it wouldn't be the same, but wish I could kidnap you!
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Er... random question of the day: do you wear rings ever? (as in, regular rings, not Rings Of Special Significance. I heart you very muchly in a platonic way, no worries.)
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Raaaaaaaandom! Yup. I used to wear them all the time but then I lost them (cuz I SUCK) and my high school ring, as pretteh as it is, is, um, ya know, a high school ring. (...but wait, I thought we got lj-married...?)
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Should we make it official (http://www.livejournal.com/community/marry_a_ljuser/)? Personally I vote for living in livejournal sin. Perhaps we should make a community for that.
I still have my high school ring somewheres, too. It has a soccer ball on it, because we ordered them in grade 10 and we didn't yet have a swim team (which is, you know, where I actually made my small-town highschoolsports fame). *head/desk* I used to wear a ring on every finger because I adore them so, and then got told by someone that that was Not A Very Grown Up Thing To Do. All my rings fall off now anyway since I lost weight, and I'm trying to pretend this isn't just a big excuse to go buy new rings ;)
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Ahhh. Rings. :looks longingly at ROTK:EE and thinks of all the slashy icons to make!! SQUEEE!:
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I'd say "You know, I never actually saw Return of the King", but I think I enjoy being married to you, so I won't say it ;)
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I did see the first two LotR movies in theatres (Two Towers at the midnight showing because I was shanghaied by friends -- do I get points for that?) I also only saw the first Harry Potter movie. And I never saw Titanic, though I understand that the ship sinks.
Consider my media retardation an endearing quirk?
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And then we can get together and squeee madly in the face of, like, Sheppard/Weir and other squeee. Omfg. *dies of squeee*
I had fun S/W dreams last night!! It was fun! Liz was all "ARGH!" because John was being all John and got them into major international diplomatic troubles, and then he was all "sulk" and she was all "damn. But I still want to kill you." And then I think there was make-up sex, but that part got sadly fuzzy because I couldn't decide who deserved to top whom.
I have, like, things to do... *procrastinates*... hey, if I just joined an automated Atlantis fic archive, like wraithbait (http://www.wraithbait.com) or atlantica (http://sg-atlantis.org/fanfics/index.php), is it rude to spam them my entire body of 'lantis work at once?
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I LOVE having fandom dreams. WORD. *DIES at the description of your dream* YAY!
It's NOT rude to spam with awesome fic like yours. SO DO EEEET!!!
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Sadly, I have agreed to work a THREE HOUR EARLY MORNING SHIFT on Christmas Eve. *growls at work* So clearly I must stay and earn my twenty-six dollars and not go to Michigan.
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It's icky, but I think that if we manage to postpone xmas it'll be best for everyone. I'm sure it's suckier for my mom being away from home than it is for me being here alone.
Plus, I'm lucky and have sort of extended-immediate-family from the ashram days, so I can perhaps appeal to be adopted by pseudo-parents for Christmas Eve.
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I'd invite you our to share with us, but I don't know you very well yet, and I'd like to not freak people out. I wish you the very best, though.
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I'd invite you our to share with us, but I don't know you very well yet, and I'd like to not freak people out.
Hahahaha, don't worry. Most of the people who invited me to come stay with them in this list of comments know me very well in a real-life sense :) And the others... are just weird and like adopting internet orphans?
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