Postponing is a good idea -- I think it's the one I'm going with. Gives me more time to finish the afghan I'm knitting for my parents anyway! *tries to think positive*

I'd invite you our to share with us, but I don't know you very well yet, and I'd like to not freak people out.

Hahahaha, don't worry. Most of the people who invited me to come stay with them in this list of comments know me very well in a real-life sense :) And the others... are just weird and like adopting internet orphans?