Oh, that's great! :) I am a great fan of "ships with pants" and getting to know someone and loving them and falling in love in a decent and civilized manner (not that mad snogs *can't* be involved) and, as you say, not crashing and burning.

I shall check out shipwithpants--but I think I'm liking it already. And Sam would totally come up with the rules, which would slowly become less and less relevant. Jack would probably eventually try to see how many of the rules he could make her forget--but would also see the advantage of "no, we're NOT dating!"

Hee. I love the way you guys think, sometimes....